Kelly Rowland

United States

One of the best ways to "save my relationship" is to focus on the future instead. Learn from the previous mistakes and then move on without clinging to the resentment.

do not slip back into the old ways

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so my final piece of relationship advice

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taken steps to resolve them

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You have identified your problems

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make sure things are going to plan

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failing to follow up on your promises

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make a plan of action, and stick to it

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made an agreement to resolve them

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Having identified you relationship problems

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ensure you rekindle the warmth and intimacy

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you must set aside quality time to be together

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your primary feelings for each other

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be for you and your partner to be open

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So my overriding piece of relationship advice

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accept compromise on both sides and it will be

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Compromise. One word perhaps but a vitally

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The next relationship tip involves one word.

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next allow each other to open your hearts

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the relationship will also be unhealthy

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Will your agreements continue to work

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How will you ensure ongoing ACCOUNTABILITY?

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Is it time to make new AGREEMENTS?

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Do you need more NEGOTIATION?

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Are you still in ALIGNMENT?

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Do you still have a clear INTENTION?

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